One of our children is in deep trouble and is not coping at all well. Indeed there seems to be no growth or any kind of movement towards resolution of any part of all the complexity.
Trish has asked me to stop offering advice and suggestions as these are beyond being helpful until there is a major change in our (now fully adult) child. Now we simply pray and pour out love.
I know that Jesus is present with us always, and this thought renews my hope a hundred times a day. Trish and I also have great testimony of how Jesus has come and rescued both of us in very fraught situations, and this encourages us. But our question remains: "Jesus? How long will this all go on?"
It is in remembering that I now belong to Jesus that my hope comes. If I truly do belong to Him, then all my problems are really His problems! This is such an uplifting thought; we know that Jesus can do anything, He already has done everything!
Jesus is the Creator of the whole Universe, even of me and of you (Genesis 1:3; Psalm 8:3, 147:4; Colossians 1:16-17). Jesus became human and then died to save all humanity from the big enemies: sin and death (Romans 6:23). This was the "price" Jesus paid for us (Matthew 20:28; Romans 6:10). He defeated Satan and took back the authority Adam and Eve had given away, and this authority He has now given to us, His people on Earth (Matthew 28:18-20; Luke 9:1; Titus 2:11-15). Jesus brought us to His Father asking that we become children of God. As children we are loved and fed and nurtured and will grow and grow "until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ" (Ephesians 4:13).
Coming into the knowledge that I am "not my own" was quite shocking to me. For my whole life I have been taught that I am a unique individual and must grow in learning and character so that I can "be my own man" as an adult, and to take responsibility for myself.
We learn to "think for our self" while also "doing the right thing" in our family, workplace and society.
We are strongly encouraged to be "true to our self". This sounds fine until we realise that it is the opposite of what Jesus wants for us! Jesus knows that as Christians we have been redeemed, ("purchased / bought back"), from a sinful life in a fallen world (Galatians 3:13) and we need His strength (2 Corinthians 12:9) and the wisdom and teaching of His dear Holy Spirit (John 14:26) to be able to live fully in this world and be ready for the next (Matthew 5:12). So, in truth, He wants us to be true to Him - not to our self!
"In response to your surrender, God will do for you what you cannot achieve by any effort of your own will: He will renew your mind. He will change the way you think. This includes your goals, your values, your attitudes, and your priorities. All will be brought into line with those of God Himself.
This inner change will find expression in your outward behaviour. You will no longer be 'conformed', acting like all the unregenerate people around you. Instead you will be 'transformed', and begin to demonstrate in your conduct the very nature and character of God" (Derek Prince).
Shirley married Trish’s brother so is our sister-in-law; after her marriage she met Jesus and became a Christian. Trish and I both saw that Shirley had a real glow after she was baptised; she declared that "it is so good that I now belong to someone". Shirley is Chinese and grew up in a Buddhist family in Hong Kong. She then went to live in the USA with her new husband whose family came there generations previously from Ireland and Scotland and are Catholic.
Shirley already belonged to her birth family and birth country, now she also belonged with us, her marriage family, and her newly adopted country. What did she mean: ".. I now belong to someone"?
I believe that her spirit was rejoicing that she (her spiritual self) had been accepted into the most secure place in the Universe, that she had found Jesus, and He brought her to her Heavenly Father who welcomed her to be with Him forever!
"For none of us lives to himself, and none of us dies to himself. For if we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord. So then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord's" (Romans 14:7-8).
God's New Covenant ownership of His people is seen in many ways, but never as slavery, or even as coercion (John 15:15).
You Are Not Your Own - Sheep Of The Shepherd
Our Bible tells us that Jesus is our "shepherd" (John 10:11). This is not like saying that He is our lion-tamer; that he caught us as wild creatures then tamed and domesticated us. No, sheep are not really found in the wild, they have been living with humans for millennia, they are drawn to their shepherd and have a strong relationship of trust and dependence. This is how it is with us Christians and Jesus, we are safe with Him.
• The shepherd knows his sheep, each one (John 10:14).
• The shepherd gives his sheep a safe place (Micah 2:12).
• The shepherd feeds his sheep and nurtures them (Psalm 100:3).
• The shepherd will put his life at risk to protect the sheep (1 Samuel 17:34-37).
We find that all this is true of Jesus and us. I have come to love Christian testimony; so many true stories of how Jesus has saved people, rescued them from terrible wilderness lives and brought them "peace" (John 14:27), "fellowship" (Acts 2:42), "life to the full" (John 10:10), "freedom" (Galatians 5:1), and "freedom from fear" (Job 21:9; Ephesians 3:12; Hebrews 2:15).
I worked as a shepherd when I was young, this included leading the flock to good pasture and helping many mother sheep through difficult births of their baby lambs. It was exciting and satisfying work and expanded my love for the natural world. I see Jesus enjoying all of us, His people, and being satisfied as we grow.
Jesus, our shepherd, promises to meet all our needs (Luke 12:22-32; Philippians 4:19). We can trust Him, even in our times of trouble (2 Timothy 3:1, 10, 13, 15-16).
Jesus tells us to abide as a branch in the vine (John 15:4, 5, 6, 7). He is the grape vine and our Father is the vine dresser, the farmer, the one responsible for the vine, and ultimately for the grapes and the wine.
"Abide" means "to dwell " or "to live". Jesus wants us to live our lives in Him; He, the vine, will support us, each one, and supply all our needs (Luke 12:22-34), even to ensuring that we will produce "more fruit" (v1), even "much fruit" (v8).
We know that a "good tree" will produce "good fruit" (Matthew 7:17); Jesus is the best vine, so after the bad branches have been cut (v6), and the good branches have been pruned (v2), the fruit will be good fruit. The good fruit in our lives will be that which comes from Jesus by His Holy Spirit (Luke 3:9; Galatians 5:22-23), and this fruit will always please our Father (2 Corinthians 5:9) and be in line with His will.
As I ponder these verses I see that pruning, though tough, is always good for us, and keeps us in line with our Father's will.
Jesus tells us that the object of the fruitfulness is to glorify our Father (v8) and so that "Jesus' joy may be in us and that our joy may be full" (v11). Joy is precious, it is much more than happiness; happiness is always fleeting, it passes. Joy fills us and is robust. Joy comes from knowing the glory of God (1 Peter 1:8).
You Are Not Your Own - Going Where Jesus Is
Jesus' plans for us are so detailed that He already knows how it will be when we go to Him when we die. He has a place especially for us, each one:
"In my Father's house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also" (John 14:2-3).
That place where we will go is in Jesus, indwelling; the most joy-filled and secure place possible (Romans 8:1; 1 Corinthians 1:30; Galatians 2:20).
Even though I have a BA degree in theology, I'm not sure I understand all the discussion about the "last trumpet call" and Jesus "coming again" and the "rapture", but I do know that I can trust Him and our Heavenly Father; this is faith (Romans 14). Jesus has already prepared a place for me; a place where there are no tears, nor pain, crying or mourning (Revelation 21:4). We will know true joy: "and those the Lord has rescued will return. They will enter Zion with singing; everlasting joy will crown their heads. Gladness and joy will overtake them, and sorrow and sighing will flee away" (Isaiah 35:10; 51:11).
Well, I must, for I now know that I am not my own but now belong to Jesus.
Yes.
".. Will not the Judge of all the earth do right?" (Genesis 18:25).
Yes. Such comfort, such great assurance!
Meanwhile our "prayers" continue to be "added" to the "golden bowls" in Heaven (Revelation 5:8), while we "press on" (Philippians 3:12) as we "follow Jesus" (Matthew 4:19) and serve Him and our neighbour.
We know that (like Jesus) love is central, and that all our prayers for our children, indeed every prayer we pray, is being heard at the very throne of God, our God, the God of all Creation and of all time.
"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things .. so now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love" (1 Corinthians 13:7, 13:13).
Favourite Scripture Verses
"I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me. I do not set aside the grace of God .." (Galatians 2:20-21a).
"This is how one should regard us, as servants of Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God" (1 Corinthians 4:1).
"For it is better to suffer for doing good, if that should be God's will, than for doing evil" (1 Peter 3:17).
"We know that God does not listen to sinners, but if anyone is a worshiper of God and does his will, God listens to him" (John 9:31)
"If anyone destroys God's temple, God will destroy him. For God's temple is holy, and you are that temple" (1 Corinthians 3:17).
Amen.
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